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Mera ek dost hai sudipto, wo ek ladki ko tutions padhata tha jiska naam tanima hai wo k.v. ishapore no.2 ki bahut aachi student hai,dheere dheere wo dono ek doosre ke kareeb aa gaye,tanima mere cyber mein aayi aur... meri bhi bahut aachi friend ho gayi, lekin kafi aage jaane ke baad sudipto bol raha hai wo mujhe pasand nhi main ussay shadi nhi kerunga, aur udhar tanima aapni studies mein zada dhaayn nhi de rahi hai class 10 ki topper ka result itna kharaab hoga main kabhi nhi soocha tha.wo khana waigaira nhi khati hai. mainey bola ki plzz bhool jaao ussay wo aacha ladka nhi hai per usey kaha ye kabhi nhi ho sakta, usney kai baar uske liye haath kaata aur.. hospitalised hui, lekin last week wo kolkata mein staires se gir gayi aur... usay bahut chot aayi main us din ussay milne gaya to dekha usay saans lene mein problem ho gayi hai, aur.. baatein bhi bahut aaste aaste ker rai hai.mere jaate hi usney kaha bhiya kaise ho maiey kaha thik hu, wo boli sudipto nhi aaya main bola nhi, wo boli dekho main itni serious hu phir bhi wo ek baar dekhne nhi aa saka.itna kehker wo roe lagi aur... uski haalat bahut zada kharaab ho gayi. aur... doctors ko usay uthaker le jaana pada. idhar sudipto ko kuh bhi bolta hu to bolta hai mujhe wo pasand nhi hai main kyn jaau usake paas bekar mein wo aur. bhi dukhi hogi aur... jaaker kahunga bhi kya? mujhe ladki ki ye haalat dekhi nhi jaati kya karu bolo Huh?

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Tosha

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«Reply #1 on: July 26, 2006, 12:55:31 PM »

Dost ... aisa akser hota hai ... wo abhi bacchi hai ... 11 main hogi ya 12 main ... is umer main akser aisa ho jata hai ... jayda din nahi lagenge aur usse yeh ahesas ho jayega ki usne apne padhai kharab ker ke zindgi main bahut badi galti ki hai. wo khud b khud sudher jayegi ... is umer main koi bhi kise doosre ke baat sunna pasand nahi kerta ... usse uske haal pe chod do ... bas itna kerna ki usse sahi rah dikhate rahena... per koi dabav na dalna.


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«Reply #2 on: July 26, 2006, 06:04:30 PM »

thankz yaar 4r ur suggestion per uski ye haahat bhi dekhi nhi jaati


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«Reply #3 on: July 26, 2006, 10:41:00 PM »

Samajh sakti hun ... per kahete hai ... TIME HEALS IN ITS OWN WAY


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«Reply #4 on: July 27, 2006, 12:05:12 AM »

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I FEEL SO SORRY FOR THE GIRL..... TOSHA IS RIGHT....TIME IS THE BEST HEALER....

The case has really gone bad...Really serious....

I think Sudipto should meet the girl personally and should confess her slowly by slowly that he wants a genuine friendship with her not an affair.

He should not break ALL TIES WITH ONE SNAP, rather he should take this step by making her feel that their friendship is not gone.... it will remain forever... AND ONE THING MORE... ASK SUDIPTO TO ABIDE BY HER SIDE LIKE A GOOD FRIEND RATHER THAN A LOVER.... IT HELPS A LOT...

This way Girl will not feel bad about herself.... Make sure she does not feel dejected...

I hope this will help.... If u could make your friend to do this for a general cause.....


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«Reply #5 on: July 27, 2006, 12:06:57 AM »

hmmmmm agree w/ Tosha and shikha!!!!!!!!!!


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Tosha

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«Reply #6 on: July 27, 2006, 12:31:16 PM »

well said sikha ... this can also be one of the ways ... if the boy can handel the expectations of the girl.

cos it seems girl can not handel her emotions.

The Stupido will ahve to take good care.


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«Reply #7 on: July 27, 2006, 07:06:28 PM »

humne usay samjhaya per sudipto to uske paas jane ko taiyaar hi nhi hai bola mere jaane se aur.. bawal bad jaayega.


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«Reply #8 on: July 28, 2006, 12:47:08 AM »

agar wo aisa kahe raha hai to isse main bhalaye hai ki wo na jaye ... q ki jab wo saksh ke tabyet saath nahe de rahi hai to wo kya ker sakta hai ...!!

aise stithi main saber ka phel hi mitha milega Usual Smile


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«Reply #9 on: July 28, 2006, 02:00:32 PM »

hmmm, its serious and a very difficult situation for that girl...

first of all, you should tell her that there are other people on this earth who love her and care for her more than that guy e.g. her parents, relatives and friends

so, if not for her own self, she should live for the people who love her

secondly, the best way to come out of this situation is to stop thinking of that guy coz the more you think of negative things, the deeper they go into the mind and it becomes very difficult for the person to come out of depression

thirdly, she should make herself busy so that she never gets time to think of what has happened with her...the following quotation might help her...

"Are you bored with life and want no-more of it? Then throw yourself in some work you believe in with all your heart. Live for it, die for it, and you will find happiness that you had thought could never be yours!"
Dale Carnegie

Fourthly, go to Satsang! Life is not meant to be wasted in love of people who don't care of us. If they don't care for us, may God bless them. But we should not spoil our life. Try to learn the real meaning of life and real meaning can be known only by associating with the wise and reading their words of wisdom!

May God bless her and give her wisdom and strength to come out of this situation!


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RamSagar

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«Reply #10 on: July 28, 2006, 02:45:41 PM »

really nice wording Karan Ji..........


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Tosha

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«Reply #11 on: July 29, 2006, 01:43:39 PM »

Very will said Karan ... but wt you said is applicable when the said person is ready and self motivated. In this case The girl is ready to get runed.


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«Reply #12 on: August 09, 2006, 10:02:37 PM »

aaj tanima cafe mein aayi thi main usay post dikhayi , usney kaha jaante ho bhiya mujhe kafi dukh hua jub main bimar thi to mere papa usay bas mere paas ek baar lane ko gaye thay aur... usney unki insult ker di. mujhe kafi bura laga. usney mere saath kya kya kiya hai ye wo jaanta hai main jaanti hu ya bhagwaan jaanta hai. ab mainey soocha hai usney mujhe jitna rulaya hai un her aansoo ki kimat usay chukani padegi.

main kaha thats the sprit....


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Tosha

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«Reply #13 on: August 10, 2006, 03:49:04 AM »

good


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Tosha

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«Reply #14 on: August 10, 2006, 03:49:37 AM »

good


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