A question about gls and boys relation start !!

by anay on August 12, 2004, 11:48:21 AM
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Hi..

I think there are lots of good people including gls over here.

So want to ask a question. I think this is the best place to ask it.


All kno that there is a good role of opp. sex attraction in boys and gls relation. But I have seen at few books and places that when you want to develop  a relationship with a girl then make sure you touch the gl minimum ie whe you are trying to make relation with gl.

But what I found that gls get opened easily when you use your touch system ie. touch them while you are with her , this way they get more frank to you and thus creating a easy way for a good affair rather flirt !!


Ofcourse I am not talking about serious relationship . at least not for me, donno about gls.


I used to belive that follow old rules got from the experience of lots of peoples who came in world before us, and I found them very useful but the above one about touching or not is making me confused as earlier I also thought that it is right to not to touch in the begining but on touching i found it better .

So especially gls wht you think ?

and boys wht are your experience !!!

and plz don't make it gls-boys battlefiled rather have a intelligent talk of this topic ..

Thank you!!

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«Reply #1 on: August 12, 2004, 01:04:58 PM »
Hmmmm.....too bold a topic or mab not...not 4 me atleast but 4 me the exp in my life is sumwat diff....its not that if u touch matters wat matters is the realtionship u share....gud frnds, just another frnd, ur sweetheart, ur love or just sharin ur feelings....its wat the realtionship is that matters...well thats wat i feel...neways wuld lik 2 know wat others think..

hav a nice time
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«Reply #2 on: August 12, 2004, 04:57:56 PM »
well seems to me that many are not interested to even give look to this topic !! very sad ..

Sanju i think Anay is talking about boy-gl relation in the sense of bf-gf type. So my experience !! umm... Well what I believe is just be good .. And about your question to start with touch or not to touch .. I really like to hear from Girls over here !!
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«Reply #3 on: August 15, 2004, 03:01:17 AM »
hmm..

I think I overestimated this place !! And gls over here are really Shy !! Very little response !!
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«Reply #4 on: July 12, 2006, 10:17:31 PM »
bhaiyo.n and unki pyari behno y dont v discuss this
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«Reply #5 on: August 10, 2006, 09:11:17 AM »
hey anay, i actually think that its true from my experiences.... Puzzled !
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«Reply #6 on: August 10, 2006, 02:15:26 PM »
as far as my experience with gals... in first few dates / hang outs i stayed away .. but then when u sit together u get to touch them n yes it sure helps each other to open up...

 in one of the book on Kinesics (Body Laguange) i read that when u try to touch someone while talking its like invading there field. So may be once u enter thier restricted field in start they are uneasy.. but then start to relax n open up...

Try this thing with anyone while u r in some restrau meeting for fisrt time.. the person will surely place the forks/spoon/ glass of water in such a manner that indicating this is my field n the fork/spoon/glass is my boundary wall but if u invade it after a lil bit of hesitation the person gives in... so yes a lil bit of touching does help to improve your relation...
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