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Hello everyone  i  am harshita, i  want  to  discuss one  of  my problem  here... When  i  was in class eleventh  i  fell  in love for  a guy named rishabh, i proposed him and  he rejected me,  i  was  shattered  ,  he  used  my  name  to highlight  himself ,  he  told  everyone  what  i  said to  him in school,  i  was  thinking  of  doing suicide  due  to  that.... Now  5  years are  passed  I  SHOULD  HATE  THAT  GUY,  BUT  I  STILL  LOVE  HIM  MADLY  , i  can  never  think  of  anyone  apart  from  him.... Plz  reply  what  to  do  .....
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«Reply #1 on: August 11, 2014, 10:12:10 AM »
Hello everyone  i  am harshita, i  want  to  discuss one  of  my problem  here... When  i  was in class eleventh  i  fell  in love for  a guy named rishabh, i proposed him and  he rejected me,  i  was  shattered  ,  he  used  my  name  to highlight  himself ,  he  told  everyone  what  i  said to  him in school,  i  was  thinking  of  doing suicide  due  to  that.... Now  5  years are  passed  I  SHOULD  HATE  THAT  GUY,  BUT  I  STILL  LOVE  HIM  MADLY  , i  can  never  think  of  anyone  apart  from  him.... Plz  reply  what  to  do  .....


boss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

iss problem ka ilaaj toh aap ko khud hee talaashna hai. yahaan mokhtalif loag apnee raay de.N gey toh aap aur confuse ho jaao gey. aap ko apne ghar walo.N se hee iss baare me>n discuss karna chaahiye aur close relative me.N jo sahee taur per aap ka bhhalaa chahte ho.N.ise public issue nahin banaae.N . mujhe aisa lagta hai aap popularity gain karne ke liye shaayad yahaan per aisee baat likh rahe ho just a hoax, sorry to say ,in my opinion, this is not a correct platform for you to discuss very very intense personal problem publically.

take care


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«Reply #2 on: August 11, 2014, 12:12:42 PM »

HI harshita,
well apka problem common hai,10 mein 7 log ka ye problem ho sakta hai,
sab ko mann chaha pyaar nahi milta ,lekin ye end nahi hota, ye ek begining hosakti hai aap chaho to.
Aap class 11th me the to zahir hai utne mature nahi the ke pyaar ko samjh sako ,pyaar, muhabbat,Ishq ye deep subjects hai ,,
apko pehle apne aap se baat karna hoga ke apko usme kya dekha hai,
koi looks dekhta hai koi sense of humour aur koi handsome hoto mar mitta hai , lekin nature baad me dekhte hai character hona chaiye.
aap ko sirf attraction hoga kuch ladkiyan attraction ko hi pyaar samjh leti hai.pyaar me ek dusre ki izzat karna zaroori hota hai, atleast friendship,
lekin jo ladka apki izzat shuru me hi uchhal de wo aage bhi apko izzat nahi de sakta, jo apko nahi mila samjho wo apke qabil nahi tha,
apne 5 saal  barbaad kr diye ek ladke ke liye, hosakta hai in 5 saalon me koi aisa guzar gaya hai jo apko ap se bhi zyada chahta tha,
apne aas paas apne aap se poochiye jawab milega,uska intezaar karna nadaani hai bewakoofi hai. i think u are wasting your time.
kuch bura laga ko maaf karna , Usual Smile
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«Reply #3 on: August 11, 2014, 02:27:31 PM »
हर्षिता जी.....

प्यार नाम है देने का और बदले में कुछ भी न चाहने का.....ये उस लड़के की बदकिस्मती है कि उसने आपके प्यार को नहीं समझा....कोई बात नहीं....ज़िन्दगी यूँ ही नहीं रुक जाती, इसका नाम तो रवानी है....इसलिये पुरानी बातों को भूलकर आगे बढिये....बहुत सी ज़िन्दगी अभी बाकी है और हाँ एक बात का ख्याल रखियेगा....

"उसको अपना बनाइये जो आप से बेइंतेहा मोहब्बत करता हो
न कि उसके बनिये जिसको आप बेइंतेहा मोहब्बत करते हैं".....
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«Reply #4 on: August 12, 2014, 12:55:38 AM »
Hello everyone  i  am harshita, i  want  to  discuss one  of  my problem  here... When  i  was in class eleventh  i  fell  in love for  a guy named rishabh, i proposed him and  he rejected me,  i  was  shattered  ,  he  used  my  name  to highlight  himself ,  he  told  everyone  what  i  said to  him in school,  i  was  thinking  of  doing suicide  due  to  that.... Now  5  years are  passed  I  SHOULD  HATE  THAT  GUY,  BUT  I  STILL  LOVE  HIM  MADLY  , i  can  never  think  of  anyone  apart  from  him.... Plz  reply  what  to  do  .....


Dear HARSHITAA

it happens in the tender age, very natural. Now you are mature, so make your thought accordingly . Forget the past as a bad dream  and focus on your career or whatever your ambition other than this boy in order to enlighten your future thats my concern and advice  icon_flower icon_flower icon_flower icon_flower icon_flower icon_flower!
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«Reply #5 on: January 22, 2015, 09:50:05 PM »
I agree with Sheba
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«Reply #6 on: January 22, 2015, 10:52:22 PM »
I also agree with Sheba ji.
I feel HARSHITAA is still a little child. here again she has committed the mistake she committed years ago. One should be careful in publicly expressing himself /herself.
I pray God to give her wisdom to understand this world.
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«Reply #7 on: January 22, 2015, 11:24:46 PM »
Harshitaa Jee I hope I can give you a good advice, I don't know what is a good age to start advising but I am 81 years of age. You are in 11th grade, nearly you are 17 years of age. So you are definitely not a child and you can make your own decisions. Frankly you say you fell in love with a guy. You start searching your heart, ask yourself was it love or was it a infatuation only, also remember that love is a 2 way's street. Secondly you have to understand it that you have to first win someone friendship before falling in love. Here is something important, in order to win friendship of a guy you should never become intimate with him. If he tries for that forget him, never ever go near him. Lastly as someone remarked rightly, just now concentrate on your studies.

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