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Question: Is friendship the first real step to love....How does one know that u really love the guy/gal....I mean does he really becum everything in your life....[/color][/size]

Sd aapne tho 3 question kar diye

1)Is friendship the first real step to love?

     I believe in love & friendship just like everyone else, I believe that friendship is the first real step to love. To love someone you have to know them, you have to feel comfortable togther, you have to be willing to give everything, and accept everything that that person has to offer and also what he/she cannot. This can only happen when u understand a person, when u already care for that person, when u can trust that person. Every relation need friendship. Whether it be with ur brother or sister, father or mom. And to love a person u have to know that person. Friendhsip is the best start! True love requires much more than just love. It requires mutual understanding, faith, trust, submissiveness and all these are the basis of Friendhsip!

2)How does one really know that you love the guy or girl?

    I believe in something that im sure many people will disagree with me on, but thats my personal opinion. Many ppl say that apne dil se puchu......... agar woh kahe k yehi woh insaan hai......... tho yehi hoga......... rite!
But i believe the HEART DECIEVES!
The bible itself speaks of the heart being TREACHOROUS!
it misleads!....... yes true....... we should listen to our heart, but i think the mind is much more trustworthy!
for reasons beyond my explanation!........
The heart is bias!...... it sees the selfish lust inside!
It sees what the eyes see........ and the eyes are a misleading weapon.
i use to say that u shud listen to ur heart and heart only and it will guide u and show u the way......... but i was wrong.........
The heart speaks what the flesh desires! thats all!
Its opinions are biased and selfish!
I be;lieve that the heart can guide only if u allow ur mind to work sensisbly and then ur heart also guides u in the right direction........
Regarding Knowing when it is really true love or not!
well this is an answer which i can't express!
U JUST KNOW IT!.......

3) Does he/she really become everything in ur life?

   Well when u fall in love u won't need for him/her to tell u anything or for you to try to keep him/her important in ur life..... or anything for that matter of fact!  Becoz that person automatically becomes not only the most important thing in ur life! But he/she becomes UR LIFE! the very source, the very reason for ur existence!

ohhh.. SD.. bas yaar meri itni taarif mat kar.. yaar maine jo feel kiya likh diya.. tujhe acha laga u also think that way .. may be..
hmm.. minu well answered yaar..

hmmm... first bit..
i dont believe in love at first sight.. for me its just attraction.. u love a person for what he is.. not how he looks.. for me it doesnt AT ALL... sooo
obviously i would love a peson.. only if i know him..
best way to confront.. and learn how he is.. is through friendship ofcourse..

hmmm bit two..
minu.. it happens to feel that hearts decieve coz the world think with mind and we dont.. especially when u like someone.. u find every little thing of his .. the best!!
thats what love is blind.. guys be little cautious on this part..
well.. love can never be expressed it can only be felt..  yes ofcourse.. when u think of a peson every day every hr every min every sec.. and love every little thing he likes to do.. wear.. smell eat watever.. when u start living a life for him only.. them.. boooom!! U R IN LOVE BUDDY!!!

bit three...
hmmmm.. just everything isnt enough for a beloved..  one life wont be enough to love that  person...  one life wont be enough to look into depth of hi eyes... pne life wont be enough to feel his presence.. one life wont be enough to miss him in absence.. one life wont be enough to dream his desires.. one life wont be enough to feel his love..
haye main aur kay kahu yaar bas.. one life wont be enough to express what would he be to me..

bahut achaa mehek and minu........nice.......mujha bhi kuch sikhana ko mil raha hai

nahi yaar HATS OFF TO U And sadi soni minu!!!!!

isha tujhse hi tho saari sikh milti hai yaar!
hum bas yoindia pe likh dete hai

lov u sweetie!

i agree with u once again
hats off to u love guru
the best relation is possible when u know the person extremely well...so i wholly agree with the point that first we shud b gud frnz... n then agar if theres a spcl feeling..feeling of attraction more than frnship...u shud take it further...its also tru that u tend to hide things from ur lover coz u fear u mite lose them, or u hide things becasue u want to impress them or smthin...frnship mein aisa nahi hota so pehle frnship, phir pyaarship :D