Yes!!!
Suhas is no doubt again rite :D and that was exactly wat was cuming ta my mind. But
Tosha Even this time m in a fix like whether to counteract to wht U have said or accept it :oops: .lemme tell U mah views, point wise:lol: :lol: {others will sleep off reading wht mess sum of Us hav created here :lol: :lol: but its something which is new on yoindia n i like it :wink: }
1. the incidents which
U hav Stated above is 100% Valid, Yes their r few marginals of poor or their r few People who pretend as if they r very vulnerable and Create an irony for the fact that whether 1 shud help the poor or not...n so Unnessarily the persons who really need help r mistaken as cheaters n ETc. Why I cant disagree 2 these few lines of urs is Cuz....I have seen many Women carrying 3-4 children with them and Begging 4 money, rather they r blessed with a very sound health and can very well work as domestic servents or something Sensible n earn money....like I used ta think 'If they can afford ta give Birth ta 4 kids den Y cant dey Work 4 their living??' so 4 may b few secs I thought that may b dey r Traping Human sentiments ta Sustain theri Livelihood

. But again a thought Creeps, In Like r jobs or work easily avaliable to these Women?

or does she rilli needs help?

?? Sometimes even m Scared to give a rupee to a beggar Cuz I have heard that they throw it back On ur face :oops: n yea sometimes few of them Can even harm U if ya deny ta give them or may b Curse U..Yes! sometimes
Few do take their Poverty 4 granted.....But tell me something 4 few of these freaks do ya think One Should ignore The rest Of the Crowd Of poors or vulnerables?





2. Like
Suhas Rightly Stated That v cant help ne poor if v start Finding Valid Reasons behind it....I mean a person Is hungry n asking 4 some amount of money say a 5rupee n 1 Starts thinking about the Concept of 'Increasing Beggarisim ETC ETC' then Yes! da person wud faint their itself waiting 4 ur decision with hunger. Isnt It?



???n If U have enough money 2 donate to Organisations Than its even Great..though 4 da general Populi it becomes difficult ta donate Lakhs to Org cuz they themselves have responsibilities ta handle. So, sometimes as far as the poor r concerned v need to keep our reasons aside?? Rite???
3. Because
Tosha Many educated,Sensible, rational n well off people Sometimes act rather many a times act in da Most irrrational manner 1 can ever imagine of :oops: n jus think the poor r not even literate they r not blessed with a Proper Upbringing So naturally they will act that way....I mean do U think their parents will bother ta teach Them values,Ethics ETC ETC when they r dying of hunger?



???So why will V start finding reasons 4 them Only?



?Only cuz they wont react Forcefully?

?Only cuz V r above them?



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4. U have rightly said that
'education' Can help!n many Orgs r working on this regard....But dnt U think these r Social Problems Our country is facing since ages n No1 rilli knows were the Lacuna Lies :oops: thatz another debatable Q 4 all of Us :oops: So do ya think If 2day a small girl aged 4 cums to U n asks Money Will U start thinking about these Complicated Points :lol: or right away takeout a 5rupee n hand it over to her????I BET U will do the later,Wont U?:wink: :wink: Cuz No human Can stop himself/herself 4m doing that
No doubt
U n Friend n Suhas r Amazingly Correct n rational On every aspect of this discussion :wink: Its difficult ta disagree to what
U r saying cuz U have narrated few Luvly truths :oops: But even
Suhas has Counteracted It Magnificently. What do U think of all This?


?? Does Ne More points arise 4 further discussion or V shall find a solution to it n skip ta a different Q with debatable Solutions :wink: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

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