Gurl n' guy ever become friends

[Tosha]

[phoenix]

they cant

[isha_verma7]

The truth is Guy n gal can maintain the said limit and call it friendship.

and break the said limit and yet call it freindship.

or break the said limit and call it an affir.

hee hee hee!

The truth is it is nither friendship nor a love relation. we are to define such feelings and intentions.
may be there is some scientist sitting iin some corner of the world researching on it :p

hhahhahhahaa gurl you r funny!!!!!

This time I don't agree to you. I do agree that sometimes limits are crossed but you can't blame just the guys. The gals are also equally involved in it. A true realtion of friendhip can be maintained if we draw a line of distinction between friendship and other relation and mind you just drawing the line is not the only thing you need  to do. You do need to stick to it. At the same time I do agree that maximum number of time the friendship between guys and gals get converted into marriage but it is because of the fact that they have been gud friends earlier and know the weak as well as the strong points of their mates.


SO, TO CONCLUDE I WILL SAY THAT GUYS AND GALS CAN DEFINATELY BE GUD FRIEND IF THE LIMIT IS NOT CROSSED BY BOTH THE SIDES

i agree w/ u..........but most of the times lines r crossed!!!!!!!

[isha_verma7]

The truth is Guy n gal can maintain the said limit and call it friendship.

and break the said limit and yet call it freindship.

or break the said limit and call it an affir.

hee hee hee!

The truth is it is nither friendship nor a love relation. we are to define such feelings and intentions.
may be there is some scientist sitting iin some corner of the world researching on it :p

hhahhahhahaa gurl you r funny!!!!!

Thanx Isha ... really though sounds funny but it has some reality to it

i know yaar!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sweet_raabii]

A friend is any person that you like or know. People who are friends talk to each other and spend time together. They also help when you are in trouble.

Younger people call their best friends "B.F.F.'s". This means "best friend forever."

If you become very good friends with someone, they are called your boyfriend or girlfriend. This means that you love or like them very much. ("Boyfriend" and "girlfriend" should not be confused with "boyfriend" and "girlfriend," which are words for a person's romantic partner.)

A friend is one who admires your skill and helps or encourages you to make the right choices. Sometimes your friend may try to make you do something you might not want to do. This is called peer pressure.

A true friend should be there for you no matter what. They should help you in times of need, but usually at the times when you need them most they disappear.

Friends are people that you look up to and can trust. They are people that you would do anything for. You can gossip with them and share your secrets over many years. You may become very close. It can sometimes happen that a friendship splits up. If this has to happen it is nice if it can be done in a friendly way.

and i agree with Tosha's point girl-girl & guy-guy friendship has different feelings and a very different situations.
because they have freedom to talk about ANYTHING
kyou ke *kuch baatein* aisi hoti hai ju ek girl kissi male friend ko nahi bol sakhti and vice versa.

 There is a point which i would like to tell you
Ajay said that its not necessary that relationship BF - GF par hi khatam ho, it may end up in a bro-sis relation too
but still  bro-sis relationship mein bhi thin line hoti hai jisse woh crossed nahi kar sakhte. They can't share *ALL* their personal problems.

Usually friendship between girl & guy ends up into a relationship if not then kissi ek party ki zaroor feelings change ho jaty hai.

who used to live in europians countries surely agree with above point. because kehne ko to woh friend bol dete hai lakin unke relation actuall woh nahi hote.

Girl and Guy can be FRIENDS but only in one way to maintain a thin line to remains there for a long time as Phoenix and Ajay said. And both parties need to be clear about that.
BUT IT RARELY HAPPENS.

Only *husband/wife* ( kissi girl/boy ke liye) can be our BESTFRIENDS coz "they are our LIFEPARTNERS and we can share ~ANYTHING~ with them." You are free to talk about anything .

In short, i don't think so the relationship between girl/guy ever become Bestfriends.




regards,
~Raabii..... O:)  

[bohra_ajay]

Wow,... thats amazing... Rabbi u did quiet a research abt Friend n Friendship.

but i dotn agree with ur Conclusion.

cos i have a gal as my friend n we both sahre everything with each other and every thing matlab "woh Kuchh Baatien bhi" and we both dont have such feelings for each other that are there in a husband / Wife or a Romantic partnership.

we both share everything and anything n still maintain that thin line. now u may say that mine is an exception

but dear if u have proper understanding and maturity the bond is always Concrete.

[sweet_raabii]

wel if you have such a friend then you are a lucky guy .

we never know what is going to happen in next moments?
Nobody can understand this relationship until he or she gets
others feed back.

  .....

[bohra_ajay]

may be i m lucky, everyone can be.

 all u need is a positive approach, understanding, patience and listening power. I have met poeple always complain abt thier friends being "Radio"... ( listen to me i dont have ears to listen u only got Mouth).... all is abt ur Attitude.

[isha_verma7]

i agree w/ Rabbi their r some things which we cant tell guyz or vice verse.......

[bohra_ajay]

well as i said it is abt understanding how well u develope with...

[phoenix]

dosti jab mohabbat ki jagah le leti hai tab mohabaat ki jagah nahi bachti aur sirf dosti reh jati hai

[sanya310]

it depends on the situation..
but mostly ..girls n boys cant be best friends.
for them to be best friends, one of them or both of them need to be committed to someone else, or have to have bro-sis type feeling.
but then again u cant share everything.
i kinda agree with raabbi on this...

like suppose if u have a bestfriend (opp sex)... n one day he/she falls in love with another guy...ure bound to be jealous then...n that jealousy means tht u had some feelings...deep down in ur heart.

[isha_verma7]

well said Sanya..........totally agree w/ u!!!!!!!!!!!

[sunny_bunny]

what can i say???i have no female friend...

[natural]

what can i say???i have no female friend...

 :cry:  :cry:  Merey bhi aansoo aa gaye iska dukh dekhkar.... :cry:  :cry: