Attention Please-->> Old post vs New posts for Birthday wishes

by Pooja on March 03, 2008, 05:35:56 PM
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«Reply #30 on: October 21, 2008, 05:11:26 AM »
@ iAdmin:

You have said, what you have thought.. but from my thinking, it appears repeating one point a couple of times.. I am replying as per your reasons:

When we will have "ONLY one thread to wish one PERSON "

-> We will have less clutured birthday wishes threads,
-- Absolutely Wrong, The longer the thread, the more cluttered it will be (year after year)

-> All birthday wishes will be at same place so making it easy for Birthday boy or girl to respond.
-- A birthday boy or girl respond to birthday wishes of the current year only, so whether it is in same thread as of previous year or it is a new thread, he/she will repond it with equal ease.

-> Reading all wishes at one place after few years will be interesting to see.
-- This appears good to some members only. Some members like their name at different places of YoIndia. Also, as per me, Some don't like to remember old memories whether good or bad. It actually depends on person to person.


BUT....
-> It may also look bad to one who wanted to wish separately in new threads or sometimes may hurt ego and sentiments.. .but on the other hand, may be you were late to wish then why get hurt ?
-- No reason at all.. This only signifies that, if he/she is not late to wish, he could have open a new thread. Then why this debate over here??

When we will have "Multiple threads allowed to wish one person"

-> Freedom to start new thread and wish in own way.
-- Yeah.. Agreed..

-> No ego problem but rush to first come first wish.
-- Rush is good for YoIndia, Usual Smile Isn't it??



BUT.....

-> Sometimes will get so many birthday wishes threads
-- It never happens, even if someone have two or more new birthday threads opened in single they were merged on first come starter basis. Means, One who is first to open a new thread for his/her friends, remains the starter of the thread. And the next thread is merged in his/her thread only.

-> Scattered birthday wishes
-- DOH This clarifies after previous point. No scatterd birthday wishes, they are all in that new thread only.

-> Hard to keep record of who wished and who did not !
-- Yahan kisne shagan daalna hai ki jisne wish kiya, hum bhi usey hi wish kareinge.. is liye record rakha jaaye... If anyone don't wish you, do you take revenge from him/her??

-> Hard to follow previous years wishes (if one wants to )
-- Why is search option there on YoIndia.. Just for beautification or what?? Also if any wants to follow previous year's wishes, he/she should have option to get his/her thread merged... We are not forcing anyone to act according to us.



By the way, I or anyone else who agreed to me, have not said, that one who wants to keep his/her wishes in single thread should not be allowed to do so.. Rather we just want, that everyone should not be compelled to keep their wishes in single thread. There should be flexibility for this. And No Hard And Fast Rule Again... If a New Thread is started to someone, who wants it in single or old thread only, He/She can always ask any Moderator to merge his/her thread... What is the obligation here?? If we don't compel them to keep their wishes as they want, Why we can not keep our wishes as we Want... ??
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«Reply #31 on: October 21, 2008, 08:29:08 AM »
ha ha ha Di!! Wt else can I do bt laugh ... and I laugh most on the word EGO PROBLEM ... the ques who has it... who dosn't. Huh? lets work it out.

Admin ji... have u even read wt u have written. waise i'm very rude in my ways ... rude because i speak to the point and on the point. and mostly I don't like to speak cos it hurts when I speak ... and i'v been told many a times to keep shut. BUT ... let me speak a lil now.

U said .... "ONE THREAD RULES"
then u say " we can have new threads if someone wants it."

r u sure wt u r saying.

well ... if ten people want new threads every year ... we will have 10x10x10 threads adding each year.

if we have "ONE THREAD RULE" then how can we have new threads...Huh? I'm so confused.

Feels like i better eat the same cake i had on my last B'day. and have the same cake year after year.

the ques is Y such an issue on having threads or not having threads in happening.? the ques is who is having EGO PROBLEM? the ques is y do we need pitty rules for pitty issues.

I think the more threads we have the better.

q kisi ko apne threads ki counts dikhane hai kya...ki i got more wishes than the other ... jo B'day wishes ka track record rakhna hai.

all I can do is laugh... Expectations to life main bahut hoti hai.. sabko hoti hai. Hamme bhi thi ... aab nahi hai.... NO MORE EXPECTATIONS.

main to ek chingari hun
laherate van jala dun
main ek tinka hun aag ka
na do aach, tumhe na jala dun. :D
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«Reply #32 on: October 21, 2008, 08:45:23 AM »
In various points you were contradictory to your own views though you manipulated my words efficiently. I can point out one by one but it will again encourage more discussion.

However from now on every birthday wish, celebration and special occasion threads will go in The Wishes and Celebrations Section. Also, there is no boundation on number of threads. One can go for as many threads he  / she wants.


PS : Tosha, I am sorry to say but you did not understand it all, you are confused as well as confusing others. If you can't interpret properly then do not take it as fault of others.
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«Reply #33 on: October 21, 2008, 09:10:41 AM »
ye hui na baat Thumbs UP Thumbs UP
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«Reply #34 on: October 21, 2008, 03:18:23 PM »
Does it matter to open multiple BD threads for each member? Does it cost Yoindia.com any extra money?
Does it occupy huge space on storage media? Does it feel bad that another person also like to open a new thread?
If yes then website admin should enforce the law as suggested.
Else, I would say "Yoindia.com is a website which gives total freedom to post our ideas and poetry."

Everybody should have right to open separate BD thread to wish. There is no such ego problem in that.

Cluttering mess is already in practice so it's not an issue again.
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«Reply #35 on: October 21, 2008, 04:35:55 PM »


However from now on every birthday wish, celebration and special occasion threads will go in The Wishes and Celebrations Section. Also, there is no boundation on number of threads. One can go for as many threads he  / she wants.



Hello iAdmin,

Nice Step that could have been taken under such circumstances. Thanks for all your hard work.

Now,
Since a new sub-forum has been created and members are free to post as many threads as they want, I would suggest to lock this thread, as there is no need for any further debate.
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«Reply #36 on: October 21, 2008, 09:30:12 PM »
...a good step indeed but i still beleive in one thread for one person for his/her b'day wishes...i really beleive in past so if i have one thread to maintain and i can again go through the previous year's wishes if i want to re-check again for my satisfaction...but anyways it's all everyone's wish...
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«Reply #37 on: October 23, 2008, 03:08:02 PM »
@ iAdmin:

You have said, what you have thought.. but from my thinking, it appears repeating one point a couple of times.. I am replying as per your reasons:

When we will have "ONLY one thread to wish one PERSON "

-> We will have less clutured birthday wishes threads,
-- Absolutely Wrong, The longer the thread, the more cluttered it will be (year after year)

-> All birthday wishes will be at same place so making it easy for Birthday boy or girl to respond.
-- A birthday boy or girl respond to birthday wishes of the current year only, so whether it is in same thread as of previous year or it is a new thread, he/she will repond it with equal ease.

-> Reading all wishes at one place after few years will be interesting to see.
-- This appears good to some members only. Some members like their name at different places of YoIndia. Also, as per me, Some don't like to remember old memories whether good or bad. It actually depends on person to person.


BUT....
-> It may also look bad to one who wanted to wish separately in new threads or sometimes may hurt ego and sentiments.. .but on the other hand, may be you were late to wish then why get hurt ?
-- No reason at all.. This only signifies that, if he/she is not late to wish, he could have open a new thread. Then why this debate over here??

When we will have "Multiple threads allowed to wish one person"

-> Freedom to start new thread and wish in own way.
-- Yeah.. Agreed..

-> No ego problem but rush to first come first wish.
-- Rush is good for YoIndia, Usual Smile Isn't it??



BUT.....

-> Sometimes will get so many birthday wishes threads
-- It never happens, even if someone have two or more new birthday threads opened in single they were merged on first come starter basis. Means, One who is first to open a new thread for his/her friends, remains the starter of the thread. And the next thread is merged in his/her thread only.

-> Scattered birthday wishes
-- DOH This clarifies after previous point. No scatterd birthday wishes, they are all in that new thread only.

-> Hard to keep record of who wished and who did not !
-- Yahan kisne shagan daalna hai ki jisne wish kiya, hum bhi usey hi wish kareinge.. is liye record rakha jaaye... If anyone don't wish you, do you take revenge from him/her??

-> Hard to follow previous years wishes (if one wants to )
-- Why is search option there on YoIndia.. Just for beautification or what?? Also if any wants to follow previous year's wishes, he/she should have option to get his/her thread merged... We are not forcing anyone to act according to us.



By the way, I or anyone else who agreed to me, have not said, that one who wants to keep his/her wishes in single thread should not be allowed to do so.. Rather we just want, that everyone should not be compelled to keep their wishes in single thread. There should be flexibility for this. And No Hard And Fast Rule Again... If a New Thread is started to someone, who wants it in single or old thread only, He/She can always ask any Moderator to merge his/her thread... What is the obligation here?? If we don't compel them to keep their wishes as they want, Why we can not keep our wishes as we Want... ??
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«Reply #38 on: October 25, 2008, 08:53:59 AM »
Well I agree with Di...Please let the B'day Boy/Girl take the decision if he wants the same old thread or a new one...Dont make it compulsory...
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«Reply #39 on: October 25, 2008, 03:51:41 PM »
assalamalikum, first of all i wpould like to thank administration yoindia for remembering me. I also apriciate the idea which pooja gave about birthday wishes. so all yoindians should follow the same rule.thanks allahhafiz.
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«Reply #40 on: October 25, 2008, 04:49:25 PM »
yes thats a nice idea we can have a single thread instead of multiple threads
I Support u Well go Ahead
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«Reply #41 on: October 31, 2008, 06:53:29 AM »
 ApplausePooja Ji, AAP KO DIWALI KI BAHUT BAHUT SHUBH KAMNA...
I AM AGREED WITH YOUR OPINION THAT FOR ONE PERSON SHOULD BE REQUIRED ONLY ONE THREAD , FOR NEW MEMBER YOU SHOULD CREAT NEW THREAD. THUS TYPE FOR EVERY MEMBER THERE WOULD BE SINGLE THREAD.
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«Reply #42 on: November 01, 2008, 02:04:14 AM »
Mujhe poora one hour laga sab ka comments padne mein.

Mujhe toh Mahiya ji ne jaise kaha wo hi tik sa lag raha hai.
Hamare pichle dino mein bahut se aisi hadsa hua hoga wo hum
bhoolna chahe toh b bhool nehi payenge. hamein yad dilate rahega.
So single thread hi tik hoga.

Baki Admin jii ka mergi.   Usual Smile


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Rajesh Harish
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«Reply #43 on: November 01, 2008, 02:27:17 AM »
Jo ho raha tha achcha tha
Jo ho raha hai achcha hai
Jo hoga woh bhi achcha hoga
Kyon samay barbaad karte ho
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Sadia Raja
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«Reply #44 on: November 01, 2008, 05:38:34 PM »
100% agree with u Puja
it's an gr8 idea yar
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