what does love mean

L.O.V.E.

L for  lust,lets face it,lust fuels passion,passion feeds desire,and if you have no desire then you cant "make love" can you

O for obsession,this may sound psycho,but think about it,"you are always on my mind","cant stop thinking about you"these are all cliches,are real for any body "in love"

V for veneration,"love is  blind?"another true cliche,the beloved is without fault,perfect in every way

E err.. err...equivocal or equivocate,why?because when you are in love you do everything opposite to what logic dictates,including commiting yourself to marriage

So love is then a lust fueled obsession that makes you venerate a mere mortal even thou everything thats exists in the realtionship is so equivocal.
(btw marriage kills the lust,oliterates obsession,devours veneration and makes everything un-equivocal)

So people rather then grade this,reply to it and tell me what do you feel,what is love is,sometimes it means two different things to two people in the same relationship,so lets debate this very basic human feelings,which gets thrown around,for personal gain,sometimes financial,sometimes physical,we are deceived by it,flattered bt it,hurt buy it,at times even made to hate it and curse the day we ever felt it.Yet its there we fall into it,some say they fall out of it,some say it but dont mean it,and  some very UNIQUE individuals say they dont know what it means.

Any takers,would love to hear your thoughts

IT TOOK A WHILE BUT AT  LAST MADE OUT THE MEANING OF WHAT YOU WROTE NEW YORKER,I AM IN TOTAL AGREEMENT,BUT GUYS COME ON PEP IT UP,LETS "DISCUSS" "pyaar"
its deceptiveness,its destruction,its honesty,its need,its fulfillment,say what ever you feel about it,i want to hear,say it how you feel it,after all we here to share

I agree with Humtum.....if L O V E is lost after marriage, its not because of marriage but other things.

Then I would say - Is Love a game ?  :D :D :D

Thanks talat,jaan,bhambra,hum tum.
So what have we established?
1)I may be write
2)misunderstandings kill the love
3)love is a game
I then ask if LOVE is "eternal"or so we profess,why would misunderstandings LOVE.
Misunderstandings breed doubt and doubts breaks marriages but "true love never dies"
If love is a game who makes the rules,what is the "prize" and how do you know who's the looser?

Deep inside my heart, once i felt like a very special emotions letting me be flown in something very senti sort off, an emotion that i am not being able to narate in words, bt that was somthing very unusual.

( and the bad thing in that is I keep feelin it like that countless time in a dday :lol: is that a bimari or LOVERIA?) :p :p