**A Girl Falls In Love**

by honeyrose on February 03, 2008, 12:04:21 PM
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This is a real incident happen when i was at
school,we were 4 best friends
all best of friends always together ,in
happiness and sorrows, one fine day
we girls noticed that one of the girls among
us fall in love with a boy from higher class..
so we adviced her shes too young for this .
But she seems to ignore us as an when we tell her.

One day she was missing from her class and we
found out from her parents she did turn home
the previous day..Now we also heard for other
students that she ran aways with that boy and
she did'nt turn home too.Her parents faced a
great humiliation from the society around them..
Days passed and one fine day after we finished school.
we friends decided to meet each other and we suddently
met that girl from school who ran away with that boy..

She paused and spoke to us"hey friends hows life" .
we did'nt reply her and she was standing there in
tears..she then explan us that its true that she ran
aways with that guy but ..It so happen
that she says "I have a uncle who
help us to study also i did'nt marry this boy i told
him i finish my studies and graduate later we will
think of it when were older" .So for few years i
lived in uncles house and he work in garage and studied.

Then we met after few years as we planned and its
just a year we got married now he earning good money
and he working in a huge company as managing director" ..
she added"Now we really miss our parents and we want to
meet them but they turn around us and refuse to accept us"
"please help us" she pleaded..And sooner we in confused
situation dont know what to do.. Huh? She silently moved
aways from us with tears in her eyes..

Now they are in a happy married
life but they missed their parents..
Other end their parents are hurt with
the situation happen to
them and did'nt accept her..
As far as we friends think is their
parents are right as they did a lots of sacrifice
for their childerns and they did'nt pay any Respect for them..

DO YOU FEEL THAT THEIR PARENTS WERE RIGHT ON THEIR OPINION??
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Roja
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«Reply #1 on: February 03, 2008, 01:49:42 PM »
Hi honey,

Falling in Love is not atall a crime. But if a girl run
away from home, society disgracfully act with the parents
for no fault. It is really painful situation when a young
girl leave her parents home without their consent. It is
ok that the girl is now well settled. otherwise... whom to
be blamed???

Time will heal all pains. Pray almighty that parents, in
near future, accept them


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honeyrose
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«Reply #2 on: February 04, 2008, 06:24:38 AM »
Hi honey,

Falling in Love is not atall a crime. But if a girl run
away from home, society disgracfully act with the parents
for no fault. It is really painful situation when a young
girl leave her parents home without their consent. It is
ok that the girl is now well settled. otherwise... whom to
be blamed???

Time will heal all pains. Pray almighty that parents, in
near future, accept them




Yes Roja i too feel time should heal and all get well with their lifes.. Usual Smile
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no_good_stranger
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«Reply #3 on: February 04, 2008, 09:55:25 AM »
Time heals all wounds but the scars remain forever.
Sadly and especially in our Indian community parents feel
they have all the rights,and there can be no question
or discussion to there decision's.Also society is quick to "shame"
or shun people for what they feel is wrong,yet how far from
perfect are they.I believe the lack of discussion between
parents and children is the route to all these problems,
after respect begets respect,I should not just respect my father
because his my father,but surely there arew traits that he should show to that respect,and show respect himself.Hard heartedness,stubborness,arrogance and the attitude of"i am your father and you awe it to me to obey my command" leads to children
who are defiant,and not sure what the difference between respect and fear is,and i speak from experience
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honeyrose
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«Reply #4 on: February 04, 2008, 10:16:07 AM »
Time heals all wounds but the scars remain forever.
Sadly and especially in our Indian community parents feel
they have all the rights,and there can be no question
or discussion to there decision's.Also society is quick to "shame"
or shun people for what they feel is wrong,yet how far from
perfect are they.I believe the lack of discussion between
parents and children is the route to all these problems,
after respect begets respect,I should not just respect my father
because his my father,but surely there arew traits that he should show to that respect,and show respect himself.Hard heartedness,stubborness,arrogance and the attitude of"i am your father and you awe it to me to obey my command" leads to children
who are defiant,and not sure what the difference between respect and fear is,and i speak from experience

Well i agree that time will heal the scars in some situations..
But what i feel is once if childrens dont follow their culture.. 
For their personal desires then will they get their respect back  .
Well i would always pray for their best in life..
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