Listening For Love

by bobby.soni on November 19, 2004, 06:35:26 AM
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Listening For Love


    There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love we
feel. For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate
to say the actual words ‘I love you.’ So we try to communicate the idea in
other words. We say take care or don’t drive too fast or be good.

    But really, these are just other ways of saying I love you. You are
important to me. We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we
want to say, and the one thing that we should say, is the one thing we don’t
say. And yet because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so
strong, we are driven to use other words and the meaning never gets
communicated at all so the other person is left feeling unloved and
unwanted.

    Therefore, we have to listen for love in the words that people are
saying to us. Sometimes the explicit words are necessary, but more often,
the manner of saying things is even more important. A joyous insult carries
more affection and love within the sentiments which are expressed
insincerely. An impulsive hug says ‘I love you’ even though the words might
be saying very different.

    The problem is listening for love is that we don’t always understand the
language of love which the other person is using. A girl may use tears or
emotions to say what she wants to say, and her boyfriend may not understand
her because he expects her to be talking his language.

    We have to listen for love in those around us. If we listen intently we
will discover that we are a lot more loved than we realise.


Listen for love and you will find that the world is a very loving place



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actually this message was send to me by my fren. And i think this is very true. sometimes we delay in saying these simple and we think what will be the result and outcome of saying, and we dont say, but we should not do this. if u love someone be bold to say.


waiting for comment


forever for those who love me, think abt me, care abt me

bobby
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nishita
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«Reply #1 on: November 19, 2004, 08:31:16 AM »
very very sweet
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Pooja
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«Reply #2 on: November 19, 2004, 04:49:08 PM »
wowowowow!!! Gr88!!! Nice work Bobby!!!!
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Meena
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«Reply #3 on: November 20, 2004, 11:24:28 AM »
very true!

"The problem is listening for love is that we don’t always understand the
language of love which the other person is using. A girl may use tears or
emotions to say what she wants to say, and her boyfriend may not understand her because he expects her to be talking his language. "

everyone has to "learn" this language
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bobby.soni
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«Reply #4 on: November 20, 2004, 04:09:08 PM »
Quote from: "Meena"
very true!

"The problem is listening for love is that we don?t always understand the
language of love which the other person is using. A girl may use tears or
emotions to say what she wants to say, and her boyfriend may not understand her because he expects her to be talking his language. "

everyone has to "learn" this language



yeah thats rite meena

but its hard to find out what that expression means, whether its for girl or for for a guy. instead of saying in indirect words we should try to say in simple and straight words.

and sometimes that person hurts u whom u love most, or admire most

but yahan kehna aasan hai , direct kisi ko kehna mushkil


bobby
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Meena
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«Reply #5 on: November 20, 2004, 06:15:22 PM »
yep woh to hai soni but the show the expression and to understand the feelings dono pe depend karta hai. so agar koi na samajh paye to dono ka fault hota hai somewhere.
but yes its right talking here its easy reality kuch aur hi hoti hai.

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Pooja
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«Reply #6 on: November 21, 2004, 06:37:03 AM »
wah!!!!!
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Suhas
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«Reply #7 on: November 22, 2004, 04:07:19 AM »
Nice thoughts....Bobby ji and Meena ji. Usual Smile
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Meena
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«Reply #8 on: November 22, 2004, 03:34:59 PM »
shukriya meherbani

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bobby.soni
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«Reply #9 on: November 23, 2004, 09:41:50 PM »
Thanx suhas  for appreciating our thoughts and articles

shukraiya
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