what is your view on this topic?

[indian_groom]

hello friends.........i knwo this question is arise many times in this forum...........but for next generation we leads their country and socity......throw this poll i wanna to see that what is real future of india.......is really eaquilty comes in india..........i think intercast marriage is change the shape or face of india.........to new age world.......this can main weapons to kill castism in india.


we request monitors plzzzz not send this poll in polling section .....i want also see the guest opinon on this question..........
magar aap log chai tau isse bhej bhi sakta hai........but plzzzz mere request ko manna jaye.

[Rajbir]

Naveen

In present times, inter caste, inter religion, and even beyond national boundaries, marriages are taking place. Unfortunately, you are living in a place where these factors play a very important role in the society. The same applies with your discussion on quota system also. In your part of the country politics is run on the basis of these factors.

Caste, religion, etc. all these are irrelevant in modern society. Just to give you few examples.

Indira Gandhi married Feroze Gandhi
Rajiv Gandhi married Sonia Gandhi
Sanjay Gandhi married Maneka Gandhi

Sunil Dutt married Nargis
Shah Rukh Khan married Gauri
Aamir Khan married Reena
Aamir Khan married Kiran Rao
Arbaaz Khan married Malaika Arora

Now you will say these are all celebrities. No, this is just to show that these things are happening from long time.

Shah Rukh and Aamir were not celebrities when they got married to their respective wives.

Similarly in normal life also inter caste and inter religion marriages are taking place and are quite prominent now. :D

If you want i can keep quoting examples. In today's world, parents are listening to boys and girls opinion. Times are changing and for better.

My vote is neither Yes nor No. It is irrelevant. :lol:

Any comments  

[indian_groom]

Naveen

In present times, inter caste, inter religion, and even beyond national boundaries, marriages are taking place. Unfortunately, you are living in a place where these factors play a very important role in the society. The same applies with your discussion on quota system also. In your part of the country politics is run on the basis of these factors.

Caste, religion, etc. all these are irrelevant in modern society. Just to give you few examples.

Indira Gandhi married Feroze Gandhi
Rajiv Gandhi married Sonia Gandhi
Sanjay Gandhi married Maneka Gandhi

Sunil Dutt married Nargis
Shah Rukh Khan married Gauri
Aamir Khan married Reena
Aamir Khan married Kiran Rao
Arbaaz Khan married Malaika Arora

Now you will say these are all celebrities. No, this is just to show that these things are happening from long time.

Shah Rukh and Aamir were not celebrities when they got married to their respective wives.

Similarly in normal life also inter caste and inter religion marriages are taking place and are quite prominent now. :D

If you want i can keep quoting examples. In today's world, parents are listening to boys and girls opinion. Times are changing and for better.

My vote is neither Yes nor No. It is irrelevant. :lol:

Any comments  

first i wanna say that mein aap ke bare mein jaisa sochta tha aap waise he hai.................balance.

kafi details mein likha hai aap ne..........magar immpressive hai.......meine ye tau nahi kaha ki india mein intercast, interreligious marriages nahi ho rahi.........aur na he ye ki aaj kal mother father apne baccho ke ki rai ke bare mein na poochte ho.........fir bhi iss desh mein bahoot bada tapka iss ke khilaf hai........well ye mein nahi india mein kiye gaye servewa hai jo ki channels aur news paper ne kiye hai.........usme aaj bhi bahoot badi ullat(against) india me dekhne ko milti hai..........aur waise bhi economic background cast se jayada power rakhta hai..........when celebrities marriage no body objections..............but you remember durring the marriage of srk and and gauri their parents objects on both relation. him self gauri and srk tells in their interviews.......but the india is depends on their middle class families not on celebrities .......in todays world most of people not know that indira gandhi married a muslim.......waise bhi mein ek poll run kar raha hoon...........mein bass ye dekhna chata tha ki humare yoindia pe aane wale kiya sochte hai lagbhag 50 logo ne iss thread ko open kiya hoga usme 20 member regular hoge tau  unhe vote dene me kiya problems thi waise bhi ye aksar dekha jaata hai bolne aur karne mein bahoot antar hai...............kannon banna tau assan hai usse palan karna muskil........waise bhi iss desh mein acchi phadai..........ghar ke dawab mein apne views kho deti hai aur kahani wahi ussi soch pe chali jaati hai.

check this votting on inter caste marriage in yoindia== http://www.yoindia.com/forums/-inter-caste-marriage-comment-and-vote-please--vt5218.html

this voting show the effect of family and socity in mostly childrens.......unke maa baap jo shikhate hai wahi shikhte hai bacche.

mein sirf ye kahunga ki bahoot logo ki soch apne ghar ke aur apne samaj ke dawab mein dab jaati hai.............for example me.............meine aapne logo ke bich mein jab ye kaha ki reservation economic adhar pe ho na ki cast tau sab log naraj ho gaye...........waise mein reservation ke khilaf hoon lekin reservation ki jo mein bhawana hai mein usse sehmat hoon aur ye aage hatna chaiye ........over whole mein sirf yahi kehna chata hoon ki logo ki thinking change kiye bina kisi bhi tarah burai ko nahi haraya ja sakta hai. logo polticians aur ek dusre ko sunane aur dos dene ki jaghe pehle apne andar ki soch badalni hogi............



aur ap ka signature aur avatar bahoot mast hai :lol:  :lol:

[indian_groom]

Yes Caste really don't matter to me. What I believe is humanity. Moreover, I will be happy if my baby is happy. I will not only allow him/her for the intercaste marriage but also would be proud of him/her for setting an example. This may sound filmy but really I am totally against the caste system. Its like a disease in the society

nice gum ji hope aap aaye bahar aaye ................appriciate your views...........hope we change this country.........

[indian_groom]

Yes Groom . Together we  can make the difference.
After all its us who make the society. then why should we allow the society to get over us

waise abhi tau society he hai jo doctor ke iss protest ko asafal bana rahi  hai muskil se 2% log bhi nahi hoge jo khulkar samne aaye hai...........sab bass ye keh diya ye nahi hona chaye aur hona chaiye............tabhi tau politicians apni marji chala rahe hai. wo jante hai maximun logo ki saoch abhi bhi wahi pe aatki hai jo 1947 me thi..............so waise ye protest bahoot bada badlab layega kyunki isne ab desh mein behes khul ke suru ho gaye hai.....logo ko  new age ke logo ki soch ka andaza lag gaya hai........aur ab ye desh ussi taraf jayega......bass time lagega.......magar acche changes kahunga........ kyunki negative negative become a positive.

[ranjana]

hi to all................aap sab logo ke vicharo ko pada............aapne naveen sahi kaha ki hamari young generation is topic per kitna response karti hai.........hm janate sabhi hai yahan aur sab kuch karna bhi chahte hain but sab thode se careless hai............

.aaj kal inter cast marriage , ya inter religon marriage koi bari baat nahi hai , jahaan hamre samaj mein itna badalwa aa raha hai wahan ab yeh bhi badlega. ham sab dekh rahe hain  apne asspass isko badlate  hue..........

aaj waqt badal raah hai hame bhi apne bacho ke saath badalana hoga , par mujhe lagata hai ki abhi iske liye thoda time aur lageaga.............specially in middile class familes.......kyuki bache toh bahut jaldi adjust kar jaate hain ,par shayed parents abhi darte hain ki bache jis mahol mein pale bade hain, woh wahan us naye mahol mein adjust kar lenge kya......?aur time is liye bhi  lagega kyuki abhi hamare saath woh generation bhi hai jinke liye caste .religion , yeh sab baate aaj bhi maayne rakhti hai...........aaj ke parents bhale hi apne bacho ka saath dene ko ready ho, per unko apne se bari us generation ka virodh  abhi sehana padega........but i belive ki aage aane wali generation ke liye yeh sab koi maayne nahi rakhega........yadi bache haapy rahte hain intercast marriage mein , aur asaani se ek dusre ke mahol mein dhal jaate hain toh yeh sab bandhan ab tutne hi chahiye...........hope for the best..........
jab sab badal raah hai toh is ko bhi badlana hoga..........

[HumTum is back]

For me:

love is more important than caste. Now, thts diffrent ....  u love someone then marry or u do arrange marriage then love her/him.

[pyarikudi1983]

Humtum is Correct

[Suhas]

HumTum is always right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   :wink:  :wink:

[shayar_dildaar]

Arre janaab pyaar kiya koi chori nahin ki.....
Bindaas hokar I wud get them mnarried....Arre kids ko chodo main bindaas hokar intercaste, interreligion, infact american ladki k saath shaadi karta hu....Ooooopppss ab mujhe jhoote padenge iske liye...Maaf karna last line cancel...

Seriously speaking these things about intercaste marriage is getting diminished...It may be existing in some families but they are fading away..

[shayar_dildaar]

goli se kya bomb se uda do..Jala kar raakh kar do...

[Rishi Soumya]

Are yaar jab Miyan biwi raazi to kya karega qazi??? If sum1 loves you a lot and can do anything for u than it does not at all matter whether he/she is from the same caste or different....Afterall humanity matters...Caste system should not exist...

[nirbhay]

=D> Wah wah sab ek se ek Vidwaan hain, mein kya bolun... :lol: Jo sabne kaha wo sabb sahi

[indian_groom]

goli se kya bomb se uda do..Jala kar raakh kar do...

missile aur goli ka contract mujhe dena jo mangoge milega........

[Tosha]

Well ... in India we have cast system in west we have racism ... it seems its just deep in the heart of our society.

We talk of globalising. But the western companies or so called MNC’s are still following the old old tradition of extracting the products at cheap rate in 3rd world countries, like ours, and selling the finished product at high rates in their own country.

For example TESCO a supper marker was in news recently because it paied its employees in Bangladesh 5penns = 0.06 paisa for a pair of jeans which it sold in UK for £5 = aprox Rs 450.

Well, so cast / race do matter … though they sud not, unfortunately the still do.